Category Archives: family constellation

Money Mindset – I Must Not Earn More Than Daddy

Last month, I talked about the family system and how it can be harsh and uncaring as a system. And while that remains true, there is also a huge amount of love and loyalty within each family system. And that … Continue reading

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Money Mindset – My family will Hate me

We have explored beliefs about money and rich people. Now we’ll take the Money Mindset to yet another level: Family System Dynamics, or systemic family constellations. Let me quickly cover the basics: Each family is a little system in itself. … Continue reading

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Family Law #3 – Give and Take

The third and final rule that governs a family system – and in fact, any systems that have humans in it – is the rule that giving and receiving have to be balanced. Yes, it’s a bit like energetic bookkeeping, … Continue reading

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Family Law #2 – Order

The second family law is about order. Everyone has their true place in a family. The mother cannot change places with the father. The youngest sibling cannot trade places with the oldest. They have different places in a family – … Continue reading

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Family Law #1

One of the most basic laws in the family system is about belonging. It simply says that everyone belongs into a family, entering it either by birth, by becoming a parent, or by marriage. Dissolving the ties to a family … Continue reading

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The Family System

You’ve probably seen me mention family rules and such for quite a while. Today, I want to give a bit of background about the whole idea of family as system. Basically, the assumption is that a family has certain dynamics … Continue reading

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